Do Ufo exist?
The idea of romance in of itself is quite ethereal it can be compared to that of finding an UFO. This is understanding that the kind of romance we are speaking about is the coming together of two under mutual affection and no other reasons. The reason that this is as rare as it is due to what i believe as utilitarianism and the human condition or what Hofstede call as long term and short term. let's start with the long-term or the utilitarian aspect of women and men relationship. The natural call to unite the two parties in nature is for the purpose of procuring offsprings. Such concept of love is foreign to them. in a way we of the human society share a lot of that primordial sense of importance. throughout history we see that political marriages are some quite commonly used. often in this case the two parties don't actually share any strong feeling towards each and might never have however they been able to recognize necessity for said relationship for the good of the society and have held back their self-Fulfillment. Such culture is still quite prominent in Japan with such establishments like arranged marriages by parents. In comparison western culture is completely different
western or modern society have rejected the idea that the good of the many outweighs the good of the few. you can see this in the fact that the dating culture in America is based on quantity and not on quality. without the responsibility that one was marriage and intersex relationships we see a shift of focus toward the appearance of people rather than the benefits of said person. This kind of relation is often short-lived as the heat of moments feelings changes constantly. this however is not romance either due to the fact that rather it being a planned sacrifice this is more akin to the priories of animals. Both partners do it out of lust.
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